Why Is It So Hard to Get My Child to Read?

Or: What Broccoli and Reading Have in Common

• You have the greatest influence on your child’s academic success.

• Be a role model: by reading yourself, you set a positive example for your child.

• Five tips for fostering a love of reading: Read a real book, create a cozy reading space, set a regular reading time, minimize distractions, and read aloud.

Ever since the results of the PISA studies, we know that parents have the greatest influence on their children's academic success. This also applies to reading. That pressure can be overwhelming – especially when children don’t naturally develop a love for reading. This is where I aim to help parents.

Broccoli and reading – two things that many children need to learn to love. But how can we make it happen? Both eating broccoli and reading are habits that can be developed. If your child needs to learn both, you’re not alone.

When your child is asked to try something new, you prepare it appealingly, eat it yourself, and praise it enthusiastically. You might even offer a small reward. If it doesn’t work immediately, you try again. The same goes for reading.

Be a Reading Role Model: Why Parents Matter

One of the reasons why parents matter is because children learn by imitation. Ask yourself: Does my child see me reading? Do I have books at home that I genuinely enjoy? If you’re not fond of reading, children will notice. Be honest and show them that you’re making an effort – or deliberately setting aside time to read.

How Language Shapes Attitudes Towards Reading

Pay attention to how you talk about reading at home. Do children hear statements like:

• “Reading isn’t important.”

• “You have to read.”

Instead, say, “We get to read now” – because reading is a privilege, not a chore. Framing it positively makes all the difference.

5 Tips to Foster a Love for Reading

1. Read a real book: Avoid smartphones, so your child knows you’re truly reading.

2. Create a cozy reading space: The sofa, bed, or table – wherever feels comfortable.

3. Set a regular reading time: Make reading a routine, like after dinner.

4. No distractions: Turn off phones and enjoy the quiet.

5. Read aloud: Even older kids love listening to stories.

   
   

With patience and repetition, a love for reading can grow – just like a taste for broccoli. It’s worth it! Because reading is more than just a skill – it’s a gateway to infinite worlds. And the best journey begins when you take the first step together.